This is VERY informative and interesting. We continue to trust the Lord to bring us through this time and to thank Him for the support we continue to receive from the Crims and friends!!
Twin pregnancies aren't easy, most of the time. by Geodhe, M.D., mother of twins
"Simply put, growing two babies at once in a space designed for only one is very, very hard work. If nothing else, it's often incredibly uncomfortable. The uterus gets much bigger than usual (for obvious reasons) measuring around term size by the early third trimester. Blood volume expands even more than in a singleton pregnancy to supply the extra baby/placenta, with uterine blood flow at only 25 weeks gestation already being equivalent to full term with a single baby and therefore your poor heart has to pump this enormous load. It's like running a race, at rest. Things are simply physically harder than singleton pregnancies, and therefore it is unsurprising that there are increased risks of complications.
Being pregnant after IVF and a loss is nerve-wracking... scarier that the thought of parachuting from a jumbo-jet mid-flight...
I measured 20 weeks in fundal height at a mere 13. I continued to measure exceedingly ahead, such that I measured term size at 28 weeks (the start of the third trimester). My final measurement was 50cm. My "waist" was an eye-wateringly uncomfortable 52 inches. That's not uncommon for twins...
In twins, 38 weeks is considered full term.
Even if term, twins are often smaller than single babies born at the same gestation as the uterus may not be able to supply two growing babies completely. This tendency to lower birth weight may also compound the effect of prematurity, as larger babies at a given gestation tend to do better than those of smaller birth weight.
As mentioned at length already, and not to belabor the point, I got ridiculously large. I couldn't sit, without spreading my legs to gynecological proportions apart in order to make room for the ever-expanding Fetus Module. I needed assistance lifting my abdomen to roll over in bed. I certainly wasn't shaving my legs. I couldn't see them. Walking was an act that had me huffing and puffing like the big, bad wolf with a particularly resistant house to demolish. …My swollen cankles got cankles of their own and my wedding rings no longer fit.
...my waters broke all over the bathroom floor at a very antisocial 3am at 36 weeks, 0 days and I went into labor For Real after practicing it for sixteen weeks, although by this point a c-section had already been scheduled for the next day...
Stoned on morphine, thrilled that neither baby had any trouble breathing and had beautifully normal apgars, and (pathetically) hungry again, it took me several hours to wonder just why I hadn't seen either child since their birth.
Here I was, thinking I looked fabulous swanning around ward, jabbering away at high speed on mobile phone, only two hours post major surgery. It couldn't last and it didn't. I was in for a rude shock when I did track down my newborns. They were in the NICU...What? Why?
One twin, had a seizure-threshold low blood sugar. The other wasn't warm enough. Neither could eat and so had nasogastric tubes. They were in humidi-cribs.
All of this is such small potatoes in the world of prematurity but it is a big shock when it's YOUR babies and you think you're so near term that you'll swan out of hospital, impossibly thin and with two babies in your arms. Sometimes people do, I just wasn't so lucky. I ended up going home with neither.
Even now, recounting that makes me teary. The emotions were heightened at the time by massive sleep deprivation. Nobody tells you the birth high is at jumbo jet cruising altitude. I couldn't sleep at all for three days, despite sleeping tablets.
The crash that followed was as inevitable as it was impressive. Morphine -aided failed breastfeeding attempts of babies who were too tired to suck in all sorts of not-quite-private locations followed. My milk didn't come in, I couldn't let down at all for the pump. Sobbing, I left the nurses to feed babies as I was clearly useless.
Begging the staff to talk to me like I was actually a rational human being, I bawled my eyes out about the fact that my diastasis recti (splitting of the abdominal muscles, another common event when pregnant with multiples) was so big you could fit both hands in it.
But it did get better.
Despite some bumps in the road involving a readmission of one twin followed by a god-awful full septic workup (including lumbar puncture, bladder aspirate and a dozen IV sticks followed by a heavily provoked breath-holding attack and fitting), I'm now out the other side with two healthy, crawling infants."
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